This is going to be a long one.
I have 2 other siblings, 1 being my elder sister and another one being my younger brother. I'm the second child at home =)Brother left home few months ago to study at Malacca. Never mind. Sis and I will take care of daddy and mummy.
Sis will be going aussie next year. No worries. Cuz I will still be here, keeping an eye on daddy and mummy.
But what if..... what if I need to leave them and go to a place which is thousand miles away from them? Nobody will ever take care of them.
Parents work hard for us but most people tend to have the same thought, the thought of leaving his or her own motherland to other countries as soon as possible because they just wanna escape from home and get as much freedom they want. Yes, true. No one will bother about you when your parents are not around you and you can do anything you like without having them nag at you. But, is that the life you want for the rest of your life?
Sis once told me, parents are the only persons we can count on forever. This sentence keeps playing in my mind and yes I do agree and I have to agree with this statement.
Till now, I can still remember what Dad told me a year ago. There's no way for any parents in this world to do something harmful on their kids, except those who are mentally ill. Again, it's true.
Not being able to study abroad is not the worst thing in the life. The worst thing is that not being able to stay by the parents' side when they need and miss you when they are sick. They are the one who builds up the family, they are the one who bring you to this world, they are the one who give you siblings to keep you accompanied, they are the one who will try their very best to help you when you are in deep shit, they are the one you can count on or rely on anytime, they are the one who change your diaper when you were still a baby, they are the one who are willing to do anything in order to keep you happy all the time, they are the one who will give you the very best thing in the world, Yes, they are the one!
But, what did they get in the end? Having a family for just 10+ or 20+ yrs and the kids just leave them after being successful in their own career? That's really pathetic.
I believe all of us know what does the word 'family' means.
F- Father
A- And
M- Mother
I- I
L- Love
Y- You
Be thankful for everything you have. Cuz you are lucky to have a complete family, to have both your parents here, even though they are already divorced. Death is a silence disease but the impact of ageing can be clearly seen on them. Love yourself and learn to appreciate because you wouldn't know when will they leave you.
没得出国深造。。。
这样最好，至少。。。
我可以陪伴在父母左右啊！=)
